When people say things do they mean what they said? Sometimes when you look beyond the surface there is a deeper meaning behind what was said. It’s not what was said they really conveys the meaning but how it was said that conveys 90 percent of the meaning. So you shouldn’t just dismiss them for saying certain things. Looking deeper into how they are saying it before you dismiss it.
When someone says, “I don’t care.” There is a meaning far deeper than just I don’t care. They could me I care but not in front of you I don’t. Or I care so much that you don’t even see, so to you it’s just like I don’t care. Or I have had it with caring anymore do what you want, I don’t care.
Maybe someone says, I don’t know. What do they mean? They could mean that they have no understanding of the situation. Or they could just trying to be polite and let you be the person to explain. They may even are just tired of trying to teach you and are fed up with the constant questioning.
What ever the reason maybe for saying what they say. You must always be on the look out for the hidden meanings. For that is the best way to deepen your relationships with others. Looking for what they really want to tell you and acknowledging it. You will have built a higher level of trust of them in you and you will enjoy the relationship more.
So until next time, look for hidden meanings in what your friends are saying before dismissing them out of hand and then Stay safe, Stay cool, and bye for now.